agmora46 | 26 January, 2012 14:52
Hello, Jay here,
Want to make your ex miss you like crazy? In order to make your ex miss you, you need to get yourself in the right mind frame.
Here’s what you need to say to yourself:
My ex misses me.
My ex really wants me back.
My ex want to make me jealous.
My ex is testing me to see if I really care about them.
You need to think this way before they will really miss you.
Step 1:
Absence makes the heart grow fonder.
You can make your ex miss you by disappearing completely from their life. They will wonder about you as its in our nature to wonder and curiosity will get the better of them.
Step 2:
If disappearing is out of the question, make yourself scarce instead.
Your ex will probably expect you to wallow around depressed, so you need to become elusive.
Get active. Go out a lot. Be seen everywhere having fun or at least looking like you are fine with the break up. You don’t need to start dating people, although you could if you really want. Just don’t expect making your ex jealous will automatically make them come back to you.
Step 3:
By this stage, the message you want your ex to have is you are no longer accessible to them. They broke up with you so they are no longer entitled to all your attention and energy. However, NEVER appear spiteful, rude or vindictive. You still want to show your ex you care about them. Your actions have nothing to do with wanting them back or wanting to make them jealous.
Step 4:
The few times you do get to talk to your ex, make sure you appear upbeat and happy to see them. This shouldn’t be hard. Just think about how much you miss seeing and talking to them. They will see you still care about them and when they start looking for you, you know they’ve been thinking of you!
Once your ex is thinking about you, you have put yourself in a great position. It only takes a few more carefully planned moves to make them fall in love… and once their heart is yours, they’ll do anything to come back to you.
Don’t wait to get back together, you may lose them forever.. review the proven blueprint to win your ex back now!
agmora46 | 15 December, 2011 12:29
So You Want Your Love Back! Lets Get Started! 10 Mistakes... Are You Making These? If you're determined that your partner is the right one for you, then it's best to get a plan together to bring him or her back. The plan isn't difficult nor is it about dirty mind tricks. Why I suggest you have a plan is because right now you are likely too scattered to think rationally about your situation. Feeling emotional, desperate, fearful, lonely, heart-broken and stressed are all emotions that are playing AGAINST you when you want to get your ex back.
But first, let me ask you some questions. Answer honestly and be mindful whether you're making some of these mistakes already.
Question #1 - Are you taking it seriously?If you want your lover back, you need to be committed. You need a plan you can follow with conviction. If you doubt yourself, if you think you can win them back by doing what you've always done, you might not see the results you want.You might be offended about that. How can you NOT be taking it seriously you ask? Well it's one thing to THINK about doing something, it's another to actually DO it. If you find yourself hesitating to quit smoking, lose weight or try to curb a bad habit, when you KNOW it will make your partner happy, then do you really want them back bad enough?
Question #2 - Are you willing to change?Continuing on from the last question. Some people are too set in their ways to really change. Now there is a difference between changing just for the sake of pleasing someone else, and doing it for yourself.You should NEVER change for someone else. That might seem contradictory from what I have said above. But what I mean is, if there's a behaviour you KNOW is bad for you, but you keep doing it despite how much your ex hates it, then perhaps you are not as committed to getting them back as you first thought.This section about willing to change goes deeper than a few bad behaviours. Are you willing to sacrifice for your partner? Are you willing to change not only for them but for yourself? For the sake of your relationship and for your happiness?It certainly depends on what it is you need to change, which you will have to figure out from reading Section #1.
Question #3 - Do you have a positive self-image?Do you feel on some level you're not good enough for your partner? That you don't deserve them? These beliefs will limit your ability to get them back.Of course it might also mean you feel regretful for something you have done. I'm not saying you should be overly cocky about the ability to get them back, but if your self-image was poor prior to them leaving you, then this is an area you may need to work on. If you are suffering from deep depression, stress or anxiety attacks, or you find yourself having suicidal thoughts, please do get professional help.
Question #4 - Are you paying attention to what your partner wants?It's easy to fall into the victim mode. You're the one hurt, you're the one out of control, and you're the one desperate to get them back. You might want your partner to feel sorry for you, so your actions around them are also filled with self-pity.This is very unattractive and will only want to make your partner wish they were somewhere else or with someone else.Redirect your attention away from how much pain you are feeling right now and consider your partner’s perspective. Have you hurt them equally as much as they have hurt you?Question #5 - Are you taking action?Doing is more powerful than talking. The best way to start changing yourself for the better is simply by doing small things for yourself everyday.These things could be:
Question #5 - Are you taking action?Doing is more powerful than talking. The best way to start changing yourself for the better is simply by doing small things for yourself everyday.These things could be:
Simply Saying you'll change and things will be better does not equal being so. To show your Ex you really are going to change, you need to start putting that change into action.
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